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RamZen (inactive) 5/20/2023 10:58 PM

I accepted

and since youre christian no tulpas are not demonic

I'm not christian xD

10:58 PM

I'm aware of that

oop your bio

Ohh hahaha

sorry for snooping

I'm a muslim but I am aware of the fact that tulpas are a psychological concept

oop sorry

no problem amigo!

10:59 PM

It happens, you weren't in the wrong

10:59 PM

I'd have assumed the same

but yeah only a month of church visits and she prays better than me lol

hahaha woww

wanna move to dms?

yes

11:05 PM

Lucilyn: the regulars here could learn something from you two (edited)

what

Lucilyn: moving of their own volition when their conversation was getting unsuited to the channel (edited)

Nah fuck that I gotta make you work for your job

then don't complain when we remind you guys what you should do :V

speaking of which this conversation is not suited for #tulpa-questions, move to a community channel

as a general thing, if the messages haven't even taken up a full screen of the channel yet it's no big deal

12:07 AM

also comments on how to use channels are relevant in every channel :P

Drake (DustyAngel47)

speaking of which this conversation is not suited for #tulpa-questions, move to a community channel

we moved to dms?? (edited)

gabyesola

wanna move to dms?

proof

No no, you're okay, don't worry, they were joking about the conversation about you guys leaving.

oh ok

Hey guys, I started my tulpa creation about a week ago. And I must say, I am progressing nicely. But sometimes I will be occupied by my family and work, and she does feel lonely, I've asked her about this. Is there anything I can do so that she doesn't feel lonely when I can't talk to her?

You can always narrate while you go about your day. It's not as focus-intensive as active forcing, and it's just as helpful, ImO.

how do i know if we fully switched

Why would it matter IMO?

What do you mean by "fully"?

Do you feel like you did? If so then great you just did

oh hey it just feels like where doing it wrong

9:09 PM

more specifically me

And yeah, Atlas is right. Switching is a tool, not an achievement. It doesn't make a tulpa more valid, it's supposed to be useful for you.

I don't even bother to ask myself if I've switched. I just do it, and forget about it, kind of like breathing, or walking.

im not doing it because its cool

9:12 PM

nvm as i was typing my next comment i realized it was wrong lol

9:12 PM

thanks for your time

as long as you feel better ^^

thx lol

Today I have begun the process of making a tulpa. I was wondering if anyone could give me some pointers on the creation process. Right now, I have a basic idea of the personality and form of my tulpa. Neither of these are particularly fleshed out though, and my hope was, specifically in regards to the form, that my tulpa and I could flesh them out some more together after they’ve gained sentience. Is that a viable approach? For now, I’ve begun practicing passive forcing the best I can, along with a bit of active forcing when I have time. This has mostly entailed simply speaking to my tulpa in my mind, addressing them by name, describing them to themselves while visualizing them, introducing myself, talking about how excited I am to meet them, etc. I have been parroting/puppetting occasionally, but I plan on doing that to a lesser extent. My next question: at what point should I start “listening” for a response back? Like should I already start asking questions and waiting for a response back in silence? Or is it too early to do that?

You can listen for a response as soon as you want In fact, i'd encourage it I got a response within seconds of talking to eishi and momo, so i'd say there's no time that's too soon

11:50 PM

Also, fleshing out your tulpa more as you go along / after they gain sentience is def a viable approach

gabyesola

how do i know if we fully switched

Lucilyn: You're switched when you know you are Host is "a tulpa" and the tulpa is "the host" (not in roles or identity, but y'know.. state?) (edited)

Kei Wendt

You can listen for a response as soon as you want In fact, i'd encourage it I got a response within seconds of talking to eishi and momo, so i'd say there's no time that's too soon

Within seconds? Do you think you are just naturally good at this? If it was that easy for everyone I would think people would accidentally create tulpas all the time. My experience: I grew up Christian (I no longer am), and until I was 18 I would very often pray to God, I’d speak to him like he was right next to me. I had a distinct mental image of how I envisioned God (I can still conjure this image in my mind quite clearly), and I would desperately hope for any sort of response in my mind, but I never received even a hint of one. I feel like what I’m trying to do now is similar to that, except instead of trying to talk to god I’m just trying to talk to my tulpa. I find it quite difficult (edited)

12:44 AM

I never had imaginary friends as a kid, and a I wouldn’t call myself a particularly imaginative person sadly, so that’s really my only experience with all this haha

cucaracha

Within seconds? Do you think you are just naturally good at this? If it was that easy for everyone I would think people would accidentally create tulpas all the time. My experience: I grew up Christian (I no longer am), and until I was 18 I would very often pray to God, I’d speak to him like he was right next to me. I had a distinct mental image of how I envisioned God (I can still conjure this image in my mind quite clearly), and I would desperately hope for any sort of response in my mind, but I never received even a hint of one. I feel like what I’m trying to do now is similar to that, except instead of trying to talk to god I’m just trying to talk to my tulpa. I find it quite difficult (edited)

Well, either i'm naturally good at this, or i awakened some sort of headmate (which seems to be the case tbh...)

1:21 AM

But, even if you're struggling, i do think you'll succeed

1:23 AM

It might take some messing around, and for some people i've heard it takes months But you'll get there

try understanding that the response will come from your brain? Perhaps parroting may help in your case.

cucaracha ↩️

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cucaracha

Today I have begun the process of making a tulpa. I was wondering if anyone could give me some pointers on the creation process. Right now, I have a basic idea of the personality and form of my tulpa. Neither of these are particularly fleshed out though, and my hope was, specifically in regards to the form, that my tulpa and I could flesh them out some more together after they’ve gained sentience. Is that a viable approach? For now, I’ve begun practicing passive forcing the best I can, along with a bit of active forcing when I have time. This has mostly entailed simply speaking to my tulpa in my mind, addressing them by name, describing them to themselves while visualizing them, introducing myself, talking about how excited I am to meet them, etc. I have been parroting/puppetting occasionally, but I plan on doing that to a lesser extent. My next question: at what point should I start “listening” for a response back? Like should I already start asking questions and waiting for a response back in silence? Or is it too early to do that?

With regards to the form, have a vague figure in mind, but not too certain, since your tulpa will want to flesh out the details themselves. That was what worked for us - a vague form until desires for detail arise naturally as part of development. It depends on your tulpa's personality whether their responses will be fast or slow. It could be fast but nonverbal until it becomes fast and verbal (my case) or any combination really. You'll be able to tell with time and understanding of their developing personality.

Does anyone have any tips to help my tulpas be more active? They're more.. quiet? Than they used to be And i sorta liked when they would pop in more often They still talk to me when i talk to them, and they switch in sometimes, but they don't randomly pop in as much or say things like they used to

For us, we kind of just call out to each other whenever we feel like, and then go from there.

11:22 PM

Generally, that gets us to respond quickly, and then keeping them in front requires doing something they have an interest in, or can busy themselves with

Yeah, certain people in our system become more active when we’re doing things they like. Chihiro is more active when we’re playing minecraft for instance

Makes sense Maybe the reason they used to be more active was cuz they were more excited

11:28 PM

I have found they become active if something interests them So that's nice I guss they're just settling in though

Kei Wendt

Does anyone have any tips to help my tulpas be more active? They're more.. quiet? Than they used to be And i sorta liked when they would pop in more often They still talk to me when i talk to them, and they switch in sometimes, but they don't randomly pop in as much or say things like they used to

Lucilyn: that's something you have to purposely work on (edited)

12:07 AM

practice having your tulpas do things on their own, basically

12:07 AM

for the most active systems, this becomes perfectly natural and constant

12:08 AM

but in a system like ours, we still just are only active when the fronter bothers to talk to someone

12:08 AM

which is fine with us, but yeah it's a practiced skill to have tulpas become active on their own more frequently

Reisen

Lucilyn: that's something you have to purposely work on (edited)

How can i practice it?

Lucilyn: I don't know how to explain, just kind of "work on it"? (edited)

2:41 AM

Intend for your tulpas to be active on their own and remember that often, or something

2:42 AM

Basically teach your brain to bring them up on its own as a habit (edited)

Oh Ok

2:42 AM

Ty

Reisen

Lucilyn: I don't know how to explain, just kind of "work on it"? (edited)

I think its helpful to try and trigger activity with certain things

like bracelets! whenever u see the bracelet <solely made to make you remember your tulpa> on your hand, your mind will start remembering them

Ooo, that's a good idea I might make one with three colors that remind me of each of them maybe

Call them and talk to them more often when you can remember

I love the bracelet idea, but there's too many of us qwq

Well, you see

2:58 AM

With 1 bracelet, two people 2 bracelet, 4, 3 bracelet, 8

2:58 AM

See where im going with this?

2:58 AM

Encode in bracelet

2:58 AM

(Binary)

I'm going to make 1 bracelet with 3 colors Or... should i add myself or not?

Do you wanna?

I don't know...

2:59 AM

I have enough colours to

Ooh, what kinda bracelet?

And a thicker bracelet is better for the pattern i'm doing

I say add you Keep y’all even?

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I say add you Keep y’all even?

Oki

ooh, nice

Kei 🍄 ↩️

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We have fronting bracelets, some people have more than one each lol

Iota ˗ˏˋM&M´ˎ˗ ↩️

Reply to: I love the bracelet idea, but there's too many of us qwq

3:05 AM

We have a ton of beaded bracelets

We used to have kandi bracelets

3:14 AM

maybe we should try making them again?

With a 3 sided bracelet, you can encode for 27 fronters with 3

3:26 AM

And then 81 for 4

Complicated qwq

eventually you will end up with random stuff that will remind you of them